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Dunno what 2 do!!!!!

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hiya, this is the first time i've used this so hiya 2 all! But ne way, i have a dilema!

I've bin with my boyfriend for about 3months now, (which is not 2 long but still) and we get on really well and up until the last few days we've had the best sex on most occassions. We went away 4 the weekend last week and so we did alot of shaggin so when we meet up again id week and things weren't so hot i just thought we were both just shagged out and if i left it a day or 2 things would be fine. But there not, i dunno whether i've got bored or him or sumthin, (i dont think i have) but things just aren't as good as they were. i thought about spicing up our shaggin by doing it different ways and places but i think its gonna take more than that, dunno y i just do!i think i'm gonna try not sleepin him 4 a week and then having sum kind of adventurous sex and c what happens, but as i said i have a feelin its not gonna work, what does any1 else think???? Help, i really like my boyf and its not been long enough 4 things 2 go pear shaped!!!!
Liz

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Do you mean that you no longer have sex or that it's just not as good?
    I know that after a while during my relationship I got bored of having sex all of the time and my bf wasn't satisfied enough. Perhaps this is what's happening the other way round in your relationship? Does you bf want to have sex as much as you or could he wondering if that's all you want him for? (not saying it is!)
    Other than that maybe you are all shagged out at the minute and it'll get back to normal!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    the only way 2 put your mind at rest is 2 find out if there is some thing wrong,and the only way 2 do this is 2 ask him,then if there is u can both sort it out 2gether.

    your just jealous cos the little voices are talking to me
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I meant its not as good, not that we dont shag at all, i dont think its a matter of either of us only wanting sex and not a relationship, or that its just him not performing, for example, we had sex last nite and i just felt that my heart really wasn't in it, and i can't figure out y.
    liz
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    go and take it up the batty, bit of variation

    get some chocolate spread

    buy some ice cream

    buy a cucumber

    fuck knows, just be prattish with stuff cuz its funny <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I think your idea of not having sex for a while and then doing something adventurous sounds good. If you go into it thinking it won't work, though, it probably won't. I think your problem is just that you've been doing the same thing too much, so if you leave it for a bit and then do something new, you should both be more excited by it.

    rar! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/mica/bite.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    pleasecan u use a different word - shaggin - its so crude and makes sex sound like a chore!!!
  • the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    Originally posted by Hippy Chick:
    pleasecan u use a different word - shaggin - its so crude and makes sex sound like a chore!!!

    making lurve! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    ok never understood this

    having sex, making love, shagging, getting it on...whatever

    all the same stuff, if one is crude then it's all crude

    boning her over, smacking it up there...blah blah

    I think we should take Iraq and Iran and combine them into one country and call it Irate. All the pissed off people live in one place and get it over with <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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