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how can i get him down the doctors?
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My boyfriend really isn't well. He's peeing blood for one thing, he keeps getting pains down one side, and he seems to be having daily fits (a mix of what seems like grand mals for about 1 or 2 mins, to my simple parcials). but he will not go to the doctors. He really doesn't trust or like his doctor and he won't seem to change doctors.
I'm getting really worried about him but nothing i say seems to change his mind.
help!
I'm getting really worried about him but nothing i say seems to change his mind.
help!
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i'm really not sure what to do. i think i can now only get his mum involved cos he's not going to go against her opinion
aparently he's feeling better now he's had a sleep, but i'm still worried
I think thats a good idea. I think phoning an ambulance might scare him, he might already be worried but is just basically burying his head in the sand and hoping it will go away.
I'm pretty sure pissing blood is very serious though and in some cases can be life threatening. Not to scare you or him like but can be used as a kick up the backside that it's not something to take lightly.
I'm only a student nurse but these problems sound serious. Kidney failure can appear quickly and the more swiftly you do something about it the more likely he will recover quicker.