sex advice please
Hi, i just joined here today and would like some advice or your opinion. I am in a relationship with a woman who i love and adore. we are currently looking for way's to spice up our sex life not that our sex is not good when we have it it is awsome. i am alway's the one who initiates sex , i need her to take control once and a while and come after me. right now she hurt her back and i know it's hard for her, she also knows that i love giving her oral more than anything do you think it would be rude of me or selfish if i asked her not to have sex but just to let me give her oral, and how can i get her to ask me i mean if she doesn't i will initiate but again do you think this is rude or selfish of me?