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Guys with girlfriends
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Okay, so I am drunk right now, so I apologise if this doesn' t make sense but....
The last THREE guys I've liked I have got on really well with and then we have met up again and they have told me they have girlfriends. What is that about?! I don't understand how any guy would think they could get away with confessing that to anyone?! :eek2:
The last THREE guys I've liked I have got on really well with and then we have met up again and they have told me they have girlfriends. What is that about?! I don't understand how any guy would think they could get away with confessing that to anyone?! :eek2:
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Is it wrong for a guy, to just have a girl as a friend too? Even if he has a girlfriend? I am sorry that those guys do not live up to your expectation just screwing their girls and ignoring the rest.
To clarify I have been on dates with these guys, and then after a few they tell me they have a girlfriend yet want to keep on seeing me?! I seem to have turned into "the other woman" without ever wishing to be! Sigh.
I'd agree with much of what's been said already on this subject. Just count yourself lucky you're not with one of those losers.
Lol, the wonders of alcohol eh?
Well I guess you're just unlucky, but they could have strung you along further and tried to hide their other girlfriend, so it could be worse. Just be thankful you didn't end up with one of those losers.
Like Matt said, there are plenty of decent honest and single guys out there
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you are only "the other woman" if anything has happened between you and these guys...
if you're just hanging out then no one has done anything wrong
you can't expect guys with girlfriends to lock themselves in their rooms or only associate with male people...