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sick of been alone
Okay shit title, paticularly given that I hardly post here and also that technically I spent 3-4 days a week around people (but usually the same person/people), but this year and last I've repeated the same bad year as 2006almost without deviation, just different people, sometimes not even that. It used to be the case that I could barely go a day without been invited somewhere and now I barely have a day where I do get invited somewhere. Given that I don't really get much fun out of been alone, have no call or reason to go out and have virtually no friends I haven't drank or used drugs heavily lately either, and I don't need to in order to have a good time, but I just wish I could be around someone a little more spontaneous and who would actually surprise me once in a while instead of doing the same boring, risk free things all the time. Bit of an incoherent rant at the moment, what I'm trying to say is that I want a life (or rather want back the life) where I spend a lot of time around people and a smaller amount of time alone or, to be more specific, nights where I party and nights where I don't.