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Hi
Sorry this is a bit of a rant but it needs to be done!
Met a guy on Friday night, got on well got a Xmas kiss - bonus! He took my number was texting me after and has everyday since, was kinda flirting a bit e.g. asking what he;d got me for Xmas etc yesterday, messages lead to something that made me think all he wanted was a shag (sorry to be so blunt!) replied and said I'm not a tease but I'm not like that, he replied with "thats ok x" not heard from him since. He had been on about meeting since Friday night when I met which was gonna be good but it just proves my point that all males want is a quick shag!
Sorry this is a bit of a rant but it needs to be done!
Met a guy on Friday night, got on well got a Xmas kiss - bonus! He took my number was texting me after and has everyday since, was kinda flirting a bit e.g. asking what he;d got me for Xmas etc yesterday, messages lead to something that made me think all he wanted was a shag (sorry to be so blunt!) replied and said I'm not a tease but I'm not like that, he replied with "thats ok x" not heard from him since. He had been on about meeting since Friday night when I met which was gonna be good but it just proves my point that all males want is a quick shag!
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Maybe he's been busy? Worst case scenario is that this guy was after something casual and nothing more, and he knows now you are after different things, so decided to call it a day. Would have been polite to say rather than ignore you *if* that is the case, but why don't you give him a text about Friday if you still want to go and see what he says? If nothing, then go out anyway and have a ball
Lol It was only a matter of time mate. :rolleyes:
OK
could always change next year?!
and cant say what I said aint exactly 110% true can I?!
Depends. If you're interesting enough, nope. But if you're hot but dull......:p
never thougt of it like that but I aint hot - don't get many offers
Sooooo .... these men that cheat? Do they sleep with other men? Unless of course, heaven forbid, that women are ALSO capable of being dirty lil' sluts! Men cheat because other women allow them to!
You don't all fart perfume .. http://vbulletin.thesite.org.uk/showpost.php?p=2089823&postcount=1
Ha
Have you ever thought the problem lies with you? If you've only been with guys who are after sex and will always cheat, maybe your approach is wrong? Chosing the wrong guys? The way you act in your relationships?
I can certainly realte my ex's problems to my own actions, people have cheated on me because i've been crap to them, or because I knew what they were like before I went out with them, others have been the nicest people, but usually when I take my time and do things properly and treat them very well.
I'm guessing your comment was a little tongue in cheek, but i'm certainly a guy who puts relationships before sex and have never cheated. There's literally thousands and thousands of us out there.
All I want is to hold hands with you and watch the sunset, chasing rainbows on white ponies and everyday anew proof my undying love for you.
PEOPLE can be like that, not just men.
Jeeze... It's always the other person's fault innit. :rolleyes:
Or shag each other and let us join in. :thumb:
QFT.
I will keep this post always ready, when a girl bitches about us evil men.
Exactly. :yes: