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Okay I am only 14, probably younger than most of you ppl here. Hopefully, you more experienced guys and gals can give me some advice!
A lot of my friends have been giving guys head and even though I haven't been w/ my b/f long, I think I'm gonna give it a try. Some of my g/f's don't feel comfortable talking about it w/ me and i wanna know how gross it is (am i gonna gag) and how do guys feel about spitting because i don't think i cn bring myself to swallow the stuff! Do you think I'm rushing into things?? I'm not only doing this b/c my friends are, but it sorta makes it more acceptable ya know. Anyway, I wanna give him a good time, any tips?? And I've heard doing it with ice cream or an ice cube is good, how do u guys feel about that?? How bout whip cream? I LOVE whip cream!
~*~JiLLiaNNe~*~
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If it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't it never was.
A lot of my friends have been giving guys head and even though I haven't been w/ my b/f long, I think I'm gonna give it a try. Some of my g/f's don't feel comfortable talking about it w/ me and i wanna know how gross it is (am i gonna gag) and how do guys feel about spitting because i don't think i cn bring myself to swallow the stuff! Do you think I'm rushing into things?? I'm not only doing this b/c my friends are, but it sorta makes it more acceptable ya know. Anyway, I wanna give him a good time, any tips?? And I've heard doing it with ice cream or an ice cube is good, how do u guys feel about that?? How bout whip cream? I LOVE whip cream!
~*~JiLLiaNNe~*~
If you love something, set it free.
If it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't it never was.
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i reckon ice cream could make things a bit cold and shrivelled lol <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
go for the whipped cream.
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I wouldn't say that a blow job is anything to make you gag, but personally I'd save the whipped cream for later, it just complicates things the first time.
just make out like his dick is a lolly pop, guys will like what ever ya do as long as u dont use ur teeth, also he dont have to cum in ur mouth, if u dont want him to, make sure he tells u before he cums and u can just toss him off for the rest of it.
As long as your b/f had a shower pretty recently, he shouldn't taste too bad.
To prevent gagging, just don't take too much in your mouth at first, especially don't get it right to the back of your throat!
discuss coming in your mouth with him, and only do it if you feel comfortable - if you want to try, have tissue to hand in case you find you really need to spit it out <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
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It deals with everything with pretty good descriptions/videos and stuff
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My gf spits, I dont expect her to swallow as long as she doesnt expect the me to do the same <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">.
If you don't want to taste it give him head only sporadically, and not all the time. I've been told that u get jaw ache if u try and do it for a long time anyway.
However - if you really honestly want to 'give it a go' then thats fine but i honestly would avoid the whipped cream and stuff for the first time you try it.
Im 17, and personally i love giving head, mainly because of the reaction i get from the bloke involved but also because i like the thrill of it! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"> The first time i did it i was scared sure (isnt everyone) and the guy i was with was huge(!) I remember thinking - "there is no way i am gunna get that all in my mouth!!" I asked my boyf to tell me when he was goin to come - that way he didnt actually cum in my mouth, and this solved the whole problem of the spit swallow scenario. As for the taste, even though he didnt cum in my mouth - you can still taste a little bit of what is known as precum, what they get as they start to get excited. This stuff doesnt taste quite as nice as whipped cream(!) but isnt exactly ghastly, bearable without a doubt.
The guy who mentioned the whole lolly pop thing made a lot of sence, basically treat it like a lolly, except dont BITE - youll soon regret it if you do!! Listen to the way he reacts and his body movements and youll be able to tell if he likes what you are doing. If hes moving around a lot and making noises you are obviously getting it rite!!
The more you do it, the more youll like it (chances are! - or maybe im just wierd!) - now i swallow every time, its not an issue to me anymore, as i love my boyfriend and i know that hes clean anyway! The taste is never really a problem, its only likely to be if they havent washed properly. But my boyf is a clean boy!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif">
Hope all this helps but remember - dont do it unless you really want to - just cos every one else has done it, so what? Do it when you feel ready - talk to your boyf. Remember your only 14 - theres no rush for anything in life. Lots of luv Lucyxxx <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
As for spitting/swallowing, I never thought I would want to swallow but first time my bf came in my mouth it just felt like the right thing to do. I dunno, I guess I thought it was a bit mean to run off to the toilet with a mouth full! But like I said, do whatever you're comfortable with. There's no better rule than that.
Take Care,
Mags xx
2 comments;
a - Spitting is the height of bad manners.
b - Don't blow. A bollock embolism hurts.
Good luck. Let us know how you got on.
if you dont mind swallowing, go ahead, but if you're really put off by it, it's best not to plan on it, or to tell your boyfriend. because you really really dont have to swallow, it's up to you. as far as i know most guys like it, but understand it's really not something some girls want to do.
i make no sense. i'll stop now.
what im trying to say is, it's probably best not to swallow first time, get used to what youre doing first <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
at least she didn't say it tastes like chicken. <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif">
paracetemoly?
~*~JiLLiaNNe~*~
If you love something, set it free.
If it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't it never was.
Yup, make sure you let us know how it goes <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif">
As for the whipped cream idea, people here will tell you that I'm the Whipped Cream Queen! It certainly takes your mind off the task in mouth <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"> But they're right, save it the cream for later. Just...have fun <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif">
*|* Chica *|*
~*~JiLLiaNNe~*~
If you love something, set it free.
If it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't it never was.
~*~JiLLiaNNe~*~
If you love something, set it free.
If it comes back it's yours, if it doesn't it never was.
the only time u feel like u wanna gag is if he gets a bit too exited and pushes his cock abit 2 far in ur mouth!
id say dont worry about where 2 spit it if u feel u dont wanna swallow just make sure uve got summot handy 2 spit into!!!
b4 i 1st sucked my bf off i thought id never do it but now im hooked!
just relax and have fun!
luv jo-lizzie xxx