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Am I normal
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Me and my brother have been doing it for about 2 months( about 3 times) he says its just playing and although i do like it i am worried we are doing wrong?
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Again I'm sorry to sound heartless but I can't really imagine why or how you would want to do this, so please tell me so I can try to understand.
its either a joke, or something is seriously wrong.. why do people except this shit!!!!
you are sick! and worse still you are a disgrace!!!!
If this is a serious post, and "it" is having sex, then it IS serious! This is called incest and the last taboo - and for a good reason. Do not do it, get some help from a counselor and get your brother sorted out too! I get the impression that your brother is older than you, and what he does is very much like a father abusing his daughter. Telling you that it is just playing
is no excuse at all.
Incest is a taboo in most societies for very good reasons. If you and your brother carry on, it could mess you up for life and damage all your relationships, and it could be very very dangerous if you got pregnant. Talk to a parent, or call a helpline, it's important to get some professional counselling.
Good luck.
All you need in life is a Crack pipe and a 44. Magnum.
Brother and sister, or father and daughter sex abuse/incest, can easily cause pregnancies. The danger is that the baby has an extremely high risk of genetic disease, and also much more likely to suffer from mental handicap. If you don't believe me, call Brook Advisory, or the Family Planning Association and ask one of their advisors.
Ideas like those of dirty_harry are very dangerous. It is like saying that you cannot get pregnant the first time or that you cannot get a disease if you are in love with each other.
These myths need to be stopped!!
but i really think what RedEd says makes sense.... i agree......
(i still think its sick tho, obviously)
I don't know if you are slightly backward on your whole aspect of sex. But what you are doing with your brother is totally illegal, it is called incest. You need to say "NO" straight away however much you may enjoy it. I don't know if your brother is older than you but if he is, he is taking advantage of you if he is not he may not understand either. If you DID ever become pregnant with your brothers baby there would be many health risks to yourself and your child. By law, you should stop what is classed as disgusting behaviour and find yourself a sexual partner that is in no way, shape or form, related to you. Have you told your parents? Probably not, otherwise they would go off the rocker (ie MAD). You need to seriously think about legalities, if not that think about your own and any future babies well being. Find someone yourself and ask your brother too also. Do not feel pressured by your brother if he is older than you or younger than you. Him and yourself will eventually find the right people to have sex with. But really You are not right for each other and it is totally illegal.
JENNIE
[This message has been edited by Caliph (edited 07-08-2000).]
Sleeping with your Brother is not so normal, unless you wish to give birth to children with webbed feet and additional limbs.
The point I am trying to make is that by sleeping with your brother you are risking pregnancy. (I presume you are not using contraception). Because he is your brother, and you share a great deal of genetic codes, any offspring have a higher risk of birth defects. This would be unfair on the child, unfair on your parents and unfair on yourself.
I think you should report this matter to the Police, or your Parents as your Brother would appear to be one sick individual!!
Rant over!
Helen, assuming this is a serious post (and given the posts on here recently...), the best thing to do is to take you and your brother to a councellor to talk about this. Good luck.
Fish.
You have two people male and female. They like each other (I think), so the have sex. They also have the same parents - what's the problem?
I second that!!
No way I have ever thought about my sister like that u can't it's wrong... next time ur brother tries something on, cut his dick off...
If you feel you are being taking advantage of, seek help as soon as possible!
Just do what you think is right (but please, please, please use protection, if you plan to have sex with your brother again).
I don't have all the answers to your questions, and I don't pretend to.
I hope at least some of what I've said can help you.
C'est pour mon usage personnel, Officier!
well i am not as shocked as the rest of u out there.
under the topic "homophobia, i can't believe it still exists" people talk about stereotyping, prejudice, and perspectives
u say that to even think of doing it to your sister is unimaginable, i would think that doing it to another man would be disgusting and unimaginable
incest is illegal, but from my perspective (as a straight guy) homosexuality and incest seem the same. people don't understand, they instantly regard it as "sick" or "disgusting"
of course, to this subject i hold the same opinion as i do to homosexuality (as u can see from my entry in the "homophobia, i can't believe it still exists" topic
so all u pro-homosexual people out there, take into perspective the situation. and understand from this why people like me regard your actions as "disgusting"
of course in terms of genetic defects in ofspring and abusive sexuality... i agree totally that brother-sister sexual activities are wrong
as i believe man-man sexual activities are wrong
bow to the blood golem
You keep making the same point over and over again!
Daze, you were wrong. It's not an IQ test we need at the start of these pages - it's a sanity test.
Is there anything you guys can do?
I am posting my opinion, which I know that none of you give a shit about, but I post it. It is human instinct to protect oneself from prosecution and discrimination by arguing their views and trying to crush the opposite view.
And I do not intend to discriminate or prosecute any of you gay people out there. I do not wish to maim or kill you, I will just leave you be. I am just making simple enquires, as well as expressing my opinion. Which would be much easier in real life, as none of you "little people" would be jumping out and attempting to crush it.
Shout, laugh, swear, do whatever you want. All I ask is for you to think about my opinions; they aren't as stupid as you make them out to be. It’s called dyslexia people… which means you're too lazy to read the goddamn thing.
Btw this argument should be under the topic "Homosexuality... is it evil?"
To the current topic, I think that brother-sister sex is just as bad as male-male or female-female sex. But it IS illegal, and it may be in the form of abuse, so Helen... give you're bro a kick up the ass and tell him to wank himself off whenever he feels the need to copulate.
County.
Please get rid of him Karla, I can't stand much more.
Oh, and one more thing, for those who haven't realised, the original post was a wind-up, she wrote that one message over a month ago and there's been nothing from her since.
[This message has been edited by Caliph (edited 27-08-2000).]
Look everybody. This is something abnormal and weird, and even though i don't think what she has done is right, I think that saying she is weird and disgusting isn't gonna help. She came on here to look for help and assistance and half of you just make jokes and insult her. She's admitting she made a mistake and she wants to get help to see what she can do about it. I hope you get this all figured out Helen
stay safe
helen a response......