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"Sex is over-rated"... no it's not!
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I am constantly reading on his site how there's much more to life than sex, it's possible to have a great life without getting any action, how sex is no big deal etc, and I'm puzzled by it. Are you guys not doing it well or something? I can't think of a more pleasurable experience than sex. It is the best feeling in the world. You and someone engaging in hedonistic, pleasurable fun. Thus whether or not I'm having an active sex life affects my overall happiness and contentment in life much more than my job prospects, money, friends, family etc.
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I guess people place value in different things and have different interests!
Saying there's more to life than sex doesn't imply that sex isn't any good or over-rated. It means it's not the be all and end all of life. If you're constantly infatuated with sex, getting sex and fufilling your sexual desires then you're not getting fufillment elsewhere in life.
Exactly that.
Although I would say that sex IS overrated. And there are plenty of things which I find better than it.
Sex is fabulous and i think its a shame if people dont get that much from it, but thats a fact of life, not everyone likes the same things, or even if they like it it might not be as much as the next person likes it.
I wouldnt fret about what other people think about it. You love it and youre getting some, so theres no problem.
To not go OT, sex is important to me, but I have far more interesting things to write about my relationship, if I was to discuss it on a regular basis.
Actually she could probably see what I've written quite easily when she's on my computer by pressing that History button, don't think she'd mind at all..