How do you..

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have really good sex? like what can you do to make him like it more?
im new at this whole sex thing. i've only done it once and it was just last night. but another question. how can i finish with my boyfriend?

and how can i not be so scared to give him head? cuz im really nervous
to do that to him and he's told me he's wanted me to do it before but im just really scared. anyone have advice?

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just talk to him about it. No harm in that! Ask him how he likes it. Ask him if you can do any better and dont feel bad if he gives you some hints, we all learn some how!

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but im afraid if i talk to him about it then he's going to suspect that i want to actually do it. but im too scared.

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Well just ask yourself, what is there to be scared of?

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Lol it's not gonna kill ya there's nothin to be scared of...don't do anything you dont wanna do obv, but you might enjoy it x

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have you seen the thesite page on blowjobs- it's pretty good. Tell him that you're nervous but want to make him feel good. Do as much or as little as you feel comfortable with. And by finish with him, do you mean orgasm at all, or at the same time as him or something different?

http://www.thesite.org/sexandrelationships/havingsex/performanceproblems/givinghimgoodhead

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to be honest idk. im just scared like that im going to do it wrong or something. and i dont like it when he looks at me when he is eating me out and i think thats why i dont want to do it.