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Leaving the house
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Anybody know why I'm finding it a bit difficult to actually leave the house?
I mean, i'm usually alright, but there have been times in the past and recently when I want to go for a walk but don't, and stuff like that. meh
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Only really if there are people around, happens a lot in town, usually get very stressed and worked up in public places, feels like they are looking at me all the time.
You should go and see a doctor, it sound slike your experiencing agrophobia
I hate going to my doctor. I hate counselling. I'd rather just do it all at night..yeah.. in fact i just went for a walk and then had a lager in the garden and it was good, there was nobody about to spoil it.
ugh.. my brain is annoying.
Well, it depends if you want to change how you're feeling mate.
defo go to the doctors, they'll sort you with either propanonloyl (will ease the physical effects mainly) or diazepam (will chill you out more mentally)
if you find these do help then you'll more likely to pinpoint the problem and hopefully see someone for therapy, which will gradually fix it for you
good luck! :thumb:
I have a mate... well ex mate now, who has been smoking an eigth of weed pretty much every day since he was 15.
He is now 19 and has never been clubbing, never goes to parties and has only been to the pub once or twice. Why? He is too scared to, he only goes out in his car to drive to hidden away places to smoke weed.
Sorry, went off on a bit of a tangent here, but that could be a reason?
But if it was it would certainly make things a little simpler because then it wouldn't just be me, it would be the drugs...if you get me. oh well.
I mean, if I'm going out raving, clubbing or to a party, then nothing can stop me!!
But if it's just going out into town to get some money out, post something or do some shopping e.t.c, then I can't be arsed, it just pisses me off.
yeah I have been inside all week but I think it's my depression. I just dont want to get out of bed and barely leave my room. Although tomorrow I am going shopping with a really good friend and I'm scared about that. Seems so silly.
ditto
Sometimes its not so bad, other times i want to kill the next person that comes near me or looks at me.
I dont know what it is i get scared of, but sometimes people just make me so panicky and anxious that im raging with anger inside.
Last night was a good example, waiting to get suitcases from baggage reclaim at the airport. Looking at the people makes me sick. I hate them all,such stupid people. Then they all start crowding round, pushing their way through. Standing un-neccessarily close to me. And all i want to do is get my case and get away from them.
Get out there for an hour and you'll feel shit loads better. Trust!