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If a boy told you he wouldn't lick you out , would if put you off him?

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I have never refused to give oral sex to a woman before. With the right woman, I would happily spend literally hours down there, hopefully much to her enjoyment.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Randomgirl wrote: »
    Going back to the original question I think if a guy used the expression "lick me out" it might put me off him, regardless of if he would or wouldn't.
    I don't think I would use that expression tbh, I was trying to maintain the context of the other thread.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Well i love going down on the ladies, tho i suppose it depends on the girl and what she tastes like. It is still very rude to say no i think.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    No it wouldn't I don't find it that nice to be honest, although I love giving oral.
    yeh i prefer givin it to gettin it.fingers are better anyways lol.
    maybe be disappointed if he didn't want to but maybe he would when hes got used to you?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I wouldn't have a relationship with someone who wouldn't share oral sex with me, same as I wouldn't with someone who wouldn't kiss me, or hold my hand, or have intercourse with me etc. Just a fundemental part of a sexual relationship for me. If he wanted to be my new gay best friend, then I'd let him off.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    I wouldn't have a relationship with someone who wouldn't share oral sex with me, same as I wouldn't with someone who wouldn't kiss me, or hold my hand, or have intercourse with me etc. Just a fundemental part of a sexual relationship for me. If he wanted to be my new gay best friend, then I'd let him off.

    bang on the money!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    I wouldn't have a relationship with someone who wouldn't share oral sex with me, same as I wouldn't with someone who wouldn't kiss me, or hold my hand, or have intercourse with me etc. Just a fundemental part of a sexual relationship for me. If he wanted to be my new gay best friend, then I'd let him off.

    sums it up perfectly :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    f he wanted to be my new gay best friend, then I'd let him off.
    Do you mean to say that if a guy didn't want to go down on you, he'd be gay?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well he blatantly would be, wouldnt he
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well he blatantly would be, wouldnt he
    Please tell me that's sarcasm.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol.
    Course it doesnt mean someones gay, but I took that as if someone didnt want to do all the sexual things she liked together, then its more of a friends thing than a relationship thing.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lol.
    Course it doesnt mean someones gay, but I took that as if someone didnt want to do all the sexual things she liked together, then its more of a friends thing than a relationship thing.
    I kinda thought you were being sarcastic, but sometimes it's hard to tell on here....

    I got the same meaning as you, but equalling not wanting to go down on a girl with being gay is pretty ridiculous. I mean, why not just 'if he wanted to be my best friend, then I'd let him off'?
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nope not in the slightest because I don't really like it anyway or maybe the one lad I let was just rubbish... lol
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    kate- wrote: »
    Nope not in the slightest because I don't really like it anyway or maybe the one lad I let was just rubbish... lol

    He was rubbish. I used to think blow jobs were shit........................ Then I had a proper one.

    :angel:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    It would put me off a bit I mean why should I have to give him a blowjob if he wouldn't return the favour ? I've never had that problem before though but I would respect their descision and that.

    Oral sex is only good if the person knows what they are doing otherwise it can be pretty shit.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Oral sex is only good if the person knows what they are doing otherwise it can be pretty shit.

    Very true.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I love givin it!

    Give give give.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Janjan wrote: »
    Wouldn't bother me.
    If I was a guy I don't think I'd want to lick someone out either! We hardly look appetising :yuck:

    LOL!! :thumb:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I kinda thought you were being sarcastic, but sometimes it's hard to tell on here....

    I got the same meaning as you, but equalling not wanting to go down on a girl with being gay is pretty ridiculous. I mean, why not just 'if he wanted to be my best friend, then I'd let him off'?

    Because when I'm single I like to have sex with my single friends ;)
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    katralla wrote: »
    Because when I'm single I like to have sex with my single friends ;)
    I'm sure my nearly 20 odd years of education are failing me here, but this doesn't make sense in the context of my comment.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm sure my nearly 20 odd years of education are failing me here, but this doesn't make sense in the context of my comment.

    I'm with you on this one! :lol::confused:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I'm sure my nearly 20 odd years of education are failing me here, but this doesn't make sense in the context of my comment.

    cos she likes to have sex with her single friends, but if it was a gay friend she wouldnt be having sex with him, so she wouldnt care if he didnt like cunnilingus
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cos she likes to have sex with her single friends, but if it was a gay friend she wouldnt be having sex with him, so she wouldnt care if he didnt like cunnilingus
    Mmmm, that's not what I got from it.

    It's more like, 'I want to have sex with all my straight friends, and I'd be annoyed if one of them was gay' [/devil's advocate]
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    cos she likes to have sex with her single friends, but if it was a gay friend she wouldnt be having sex with him, so she wouldnt care if he didnt like cunnilingus



    Ah, it makes a bit more sense now :)

    Hmmm - Sex with my single friends would be interesting. It wouldn't happen though! Bah.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    What if you had a non-gay male friend who didn't want to go down on you? Would you not let them be either a friend or a lover? I think thats the ambiguous bit :confused:
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    well. if a guy asked me i wouldnt. depending on if i knew him. but ive been in a relationship for a year now. and he eats me out a lot. so idc. but yea thats just me.
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