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Hypotheticals

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
Urm...yeah just really wanted to say what a wickid msg board this is and how you all seem so nice and give great advice. sorry for bugging anyone who don't like new ppl saying hi, but i also wanted to start a new topic too about hypotheticals.

ok i was chatting to a mate at school and we were talking about getting pregnant at the age of 15, (I am 15 btw), anyways she kept on saying, yeah but I wouldn't.

Anyway the point of this post is just to say what would you do (in a hypothical way, even if you're sure that there's no way of this occurring (ie you're male))? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/confused.gif"&gt; ie, taking the morning after pill, have an abortion, your feelings towards telling your parents, talking to friends, the guy who made you pregnant and how you would feel etc? What if enough days had gone past before you realised that maybe you should take the after morning pill?

Also one other thing, just another lead from this topic, has anyone else got any other hypotheticals about the subject of this board, ie sex. and how would you deal with them?

Peace and Love Fran (aka devilgirl667) <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Hi Fran and welcomr to the site! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    Umm hypothetically.. uh i cant do these?

    Personally i have NO idea WHAT i would do if i got pregnant now.. and im 18!

    Im a virgin, but getting pregnant is one of the major fears i have about finally poppin me cherry! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt;

    If (IF) i did, (hypothetically of course!) urgh god knows!

    I dont really agree with abortion, unless the girl is a victim of rape etc etc, but then if i was actually in the situation my opinions may change.

    I KNOW that i couldnt give a child a decent life in this stage of my life. Its not really fair on the baby if im gunna bring it up really badly is it?

    I couldnt handle it. Respect to all that can! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/smile.gif"&gt; Lxxx

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.contrabandent.com/pez/otn/angels/littleangel.gif"&gt;
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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    im 18. if i got pregnant now id probably have an abortion, tho know knows? if iti was in a stable relationship then not so bad, if kinda casual then i thik thats would e bad. woudlk take morning after pill if had unprotecred sec, but im ion the pill anyway. depends hwho it was as to how i would feel about him.

    sorry ash me tomoorrow.

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    OMG that is a really hard question.

    Well i'm 16 & i could no way cope wit a child @ the mo. I would probably have an abortion but then i'm not sure as i've never been in that situation b4.

    My current bf has said 2 me that if i ever got pregnant he would stay wit me etc & he doesn't agree wit abortion but that he would respect ne decision i made which is good 2 know.

    Only problem is he thinks he'd be able 2 cope wit a child. (Yeah rite!) He's only 20 himself!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    i wudnt make her preggers in the first place...

    but as a new hypothetical one, what if you were with someone you really loved but you couldnt have a child? what would you do?

    My classmates will copulate with anything that moves, but I've never seen any reason to limit myself <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If i was with somebody i really loved then having a child would be a bonus not a necessity. Im not OVERLY keen on having children anyway, but i can imagine the kinda heartbreak that i would have if i found i was infertile.

    Theres always a way - adoption, fostering, if i really wanted children i could help the poorer children of this world. Those who dont have loving families to go to. Lxxx

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.contrabandent.com/pez/otn/angels/littleangel.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    im 16, and if i got pregnant i would be sooo scared, im not ready to cope with a baby so id probably have an abortion. Id prefer to give it up for adoption, but i dont think id be able to go through with the actual pregnancy.

    I really support the idea of adoption, evn if i can have kids id still like to adopt a child (in the future), hopefully i'd be able to give the a better quality of life than they would have otherwise.

    What does everyone think about surragacy? I think you must have to be such a strong person to give up a child and go through pregnancy for someone else...i think its an amazing thing to do for someone. Id love to do it, but dont know if i could cope mentally.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    sugar&spice:
    I think you must have to be such a strong person to give up a child and go through pregnancy for someone else...i think its an amazing thing to do for someone. Id love to do it, but dont know if i could cope mentally.

    id be more than happy to help make a baby for someone else and plan on donating sperm in the long term

    imagine a million md's running around...<eg> WORLD DOMINATION SHALL BE MINE!!! <evil laugh and cackling follows>



    My classmates will copulate with anything that moves, but I've never seen any reason to limit myself <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    GOD PLEASE NOO!!!! One of you is more than enuff!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.mpz.co.uk/cwm/otn/happy/happy.gif"&gt; Lxxx

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.contrabandent.com/pez/otn/angels/littleangel.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    lurvlylucy:
    GOD PLEASE NOO!!!! One of you is more than enuff!!

    well at least you admit you cant handle me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;



    My classmates will copulate with anything that moves, but I've never seen any reason to limit myself <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    TRUE! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; Lxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    That's a difficult question to answer honestly unless you've been in a situation where you've had to make the decision, because however much you may think you know how you'd react, when it actually comes down to it you may find you feel different things which affect your ultimate decision.

    However, having said that, I'd definitely keep the baby. I would hate to get pregnant now because I want to finish my education and have a stable relationship before I bring a baby into the world, but if it happened differently I'd want to deal with the consequences and have the baby.

    I think the hardest thing would be telling my parents because they'd be really disappointed, but unlike a lot of my friends' parents I know that at the end of the day they'd do everything they could to support me and the baby.

    I'd want the father to have something to do with the baby, even if he didn't want to stay with me. I hope very much that I'd never be in a situation where the father didn't even want to see his child, because I don't think I'd be able to handle it too well.
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