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Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
hi can ne1 help or have/had the same problem? my gf and i have a good sex life but she my first girlfriend and never kissed or slept with ne1 b4 her. when we have sex it great but it lasts bout 30-60 mins but every1 say men cum quick is there sumthink wrong?? she promises me she orgasums and i know she does cos she get really hot and shakes and screams. iv never had an orgasum i cum but dont feel nethink really is the common or is there sumthink wrong with me?????

be really greatfull if ne1 can help
thanx

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    If you can keep going for an hour then i don't think you've got anything to worry about.

    And i don't think your girlfriend will either.

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  • Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    not all blokes cum quickly, its a myth. some do, some dont.

    why do you say you dont cum when you ejaculate? for blokes an orgasm generally is when they cum.

    Out of my mind. Back in five minutes.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Nah, if you can last that long and make ur gf cum ur doing just nice <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; Shes a lucky gal <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Why don't you try something new? Like a different position? Or let her give you a BJ till you are on the brink of cumming, and then penetrate her. You might find it easier to orgasm then, coz u'll be more turned on. Chat to your girlf about it - she mite be able to help u out! Have fun.
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    while the joke is straight men come in ten minutes, I believe it is usually longer than that and half an hour seems quite reasonable. It does sound like you are only ejaculating, bad luck - try to relax more.

    I generally manage to orgasm 2 out of 3 times that I have encounters, provided I'm relaxed. When I'm feeling pressured to perform it can be up to 8 hours before I ejaculate or give up. The good news is that of the guys I know, it is only those of us with separate ejaculation and orgasms that manage the super brain-melting my-god-it's-full-of-stars damn-there-goes-my-speech-centre motor-control-has-left-the-building scoop-me-up-put-me-in-a-bucket-and-call-me-odo 8) orgasm (unfortunately that type seem to arrive about once in a blue moon)

    we might be able to give some more advice/pointers/help if you tell us about your masturbation. Or am I just a perv for asking? <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by jon_davis:
    when we have sex it great but it lasts bout 30-60 mins but every1 say men cum quick is there sumthink wrong??
    thanx

    How old are you?? It's only when blokes seem to get a bit older that they can't last as long!
  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Genie:
    How old are you?? It's only when blokes seem to get a bit older that they can't last as long!

    That's not always true. Many older men are more experienced and have mastered the technique for delaying ejaculation.



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  • Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    hey jon don't complain!

    did u know most girls like a guy who lasts longer? your g/f prob adores it!


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