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Could there be something wrong???

Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

Hiya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
for the past...3/4 month that me and my boyf/fiance have been back together(newbies can go back and check out my stories)! we've not used any protection at all! my periods have all came, apart from the once but they came late, ive done atleast 6pregnancy tests they all come up negative, which is good BUT im getting worried i mean..we've done it for ages without on, i know he comes coz afterwards its quite messy! but do you think if there could be something wrong, coz well if we arent being safe and im not getting pregnant!! i cant talk to any1 about this coz they'd go mad BUT i need advice! Its much better without one! But could they're be something wrong??
Love Miss_Kxxx

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    right 1st things 1st, u r soooooooo stupid for not using ne thing <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; and im not sure if there cud b nething wrong, but some people try for 2 years 2 get pregnant, it doesnt always happen at once. but 4gods sake use some protection cos u dont know when ur luck might end.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    if you're really worried go talk to a doctor about it. but lil_jo is right, you're silly not to use protection, ESPECIALLY if he comes inside you! please please please please PLEASE use a condom or go on the pill!!!!

    rar! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/mica/bite.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Just because you're having unprotected sex doesn't mean you're going to get pregnant, although you're asking for it... I mean, do you seriously want to get pregnant or something? And if you don't, why aren't you using protection? Get yourself on the pill if you don't want to use a condom!

    Like Jo says, it could be nothing, but there could be something wrong, any number of things in fact. He could have a low sperm count, or you might not be ovulating properly, or either of you might be infertile, or you might not be compatible baby-making-wise so your body ends up poisoning his sperm.

    And if there is something wrong there's nothing you can do other than apply for IVF when you actually want a baby. Just get yourself some contraception now before you find out for sure that everything's working fine and you end up either being a teenage mother or having an abortion.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Hiya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    I know you's are all right yes, i should use protection, but it just..well it takes up so much time, well what 1min but you know! Id go on the pill BUT theres something about my female side of the family and the effect its had on them that i dont want to take the risk! so..i went to the doctor she didnt say much! she said after doing tests we're both fine! i think its just maybe luck that i aint getting preg! BUT i think ill just have to say to my boyf until were married its best to be safe!
    Love Miss_Kxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    my mate had unprotected sex for six years, with three different guys before she got pregnant, she'd just got an appointment for infertility tests when she got pregnant, aparently that's quite common.

    bb

    be happy
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Miss_K:

    Hiya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    I know you's are all right yes, i should use protection, but it just..well it takes up so much time, well what 1min but you know! Id go on the pill BUT theres something about my female side of the family and the effect its had on them that i dont want to take the risk! so..i went to the doctor she didnt say much! she said after doing tests we're both fine! i think its just maybe luck that i aint getting preg! BUT i think ill just have to say to my boyf until were married its best to be safe!
    Love Miss_Kxxx
    Yea I think u ahould say that to your boyfriends...infact dont bother saying it at all, just make sure u r protected for yourself! U think it takes up so much time to use protection, urrr i hate to be the one to say it but babies take up all your time so just go on the pill will u!!!!!

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Hiya
    ok, you want to know why i cant go on the pill, ill tell you! Its happend with all my mums family! when they were about my age they were put on the pill, and before any of them could gave babies they had to go through an operation because the pill had damaged them, my mum was lucky to have 3 babies my auntie cant have any because the pill damaged her tubes! I dont want to put myself to that risk! If i wasnt told about that id be on it!
    Love Miss_Kxxxxx
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Miss_K:

    Hiya
    ok, you want to know why i cant go on the pill, ill tell you! Its happend with all my mums family! when they were about my age they were put on the pill, and before any of them could gave babies they had to go through an operation because the pill had damaged them, my mum was lucky to have 3 babies my auntie cant have any because the pill damaged her tubes! I dont want to put myself to that risk! If i wasnt told about that id be on it!
    Love Miss_Kxxxxx

    Shit, well its understandable that u would be put off from going on the pill...but there is still condoms.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Yeah there are still condoms, dont be silly, use them, fate says ur bound to get pregnant when u get into a false sense of security!! USe a condom! PLEASE!! <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; That one minute could save you a LOT of grief in the long term! Lxxx

    Useful trick -> if your prospective beloved's eyes dilate when you first speak it means they fancy you. Eyes also dilate when u take cocaine, but at least ull know there interested or a crack head!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Miss-K why don't you have a coil fitted? It's about 97% safe and you don't take the hormones.

    There is also the female sponge that you can slip in before you get started so you don't interupt the flow of sex.

    You can also use the condom in a sexual way too. Place it on the end of his dick and roll it down with your mouth keeping your lips tight, he'll enjoy that!! Especially nice if you use flavoured condoms.

    You could also try (but less safe) getting him to withdraw before he cumms and then shoving his dick up your arse for a different kind of orgasm! (anal sex is a diff. kind of sex but good! so try it)
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Lady 1:
    You could also try (but less safe) getting him to withdraw before he cumms and then shoving his dick up your arse for a different kind of orgasm! (anal sex is a diff. kind of sex but good! so try it)


    you're quite clearly a bloke in disguise trying to change the mentality of the birds in the BBS

    dint fool me <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;


    My classmates will copulate with anything that moves, but I've never seen any reason to limit myself <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Lady 1:
    Miss-K why don't you have a coil fitted? It's about 97% safe and you don't take the hormones.

    Doctors dont like fitting coils to young people, they can cause heavy or painful periods, and increase the risk or infections which can make you infertile
    Originally posted by Lady 1:
    You could also try (but less safe) getting him to withdraw before he cumms

    Bad idea- very unreliable, sperm comes out before he actually cums so there's still a high risk of getting pregnant

    Getting fitted for a diaphram sound a good idea tho, and you DEFINATELY need to get sorted with some kind of contreception!!
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by sugar&spice:
    Getting fitted for a diaphram sound a good idea tho, and you DEFINATELY need to get sorted with some kind of contreception!!

    then once uve done that you DEFINITELY need to get sorted with some kind of contraception!!



    Don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I hate condoms, they are too unreliable, I got my first gf pregnant and we had only done it 5 times but used protection.
    Thats why u shud try and find a pill or other form of contraception that suits you if you dont like using condoms.
    But it says a lot for my fertility if condoms cant hold it back, know what i mean :-) !?!?!!?!?!

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    the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    Originally posted by MasterDevilish:
    DEFINITELY

    wow, i'm impressed! i was starting to think that me and emma are the only ones who can spell that word!!

    the UK definitely needs better education.
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    I can definitely spell as well <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by wildchild:
    I can definitely spell as well <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    Me too, 99% of the time <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wildchild:
    I can definitely spell as well

    nah, im not convinced, i bet you copied it <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;



    Don't knock masturbation, it's sex with someone I love <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by MasterDevilish:
    im not convinced

    Don't believe me then <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; But I bet you can't find a spelling mistake in any of my posts to date! There's a challenge for you instead of spending all your time making ridiculous numbers of posts <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

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    the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    Originally posted by wildchild:
    Don't believe me then <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; But I bet you can't find a spelling mistake in any of my posts to date! There's a challenge for you instead of spending all your time making ridiculous numbers of posts <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;

    at http://www.thesite.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/000279.html you said "gurlie" instead of "girly". <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by Miss_K:

    Hiya
    ok, you want to know why i cant go on the pill, ill tell you! Its happend with all my mums family! when they were about my age they were put on the pill, and before any of them could gave babies they had to go through an operation because the pill had damaged them, my mum was lucky to have 3 babies my auntie cant have any because the pill damaged her tubes! I dont want to put myself to that risk! If i wasnt told about that id be on it!
    Love Miss_Kxxxxx

    Those were the old kinda pills. In both your mum's and auntie's generation they had a different kind of pill that did damage but I think the ones they use now are different and don`t do any damage. Ask your Doc about it.

    "Honesty is just an excuse for lack of imagination."
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    Originally posted by the_Paranoid_bunny:
    at http://www.thesite.org/ubb/Forum1/HTML/000279.html you said "gurlie" instead of "girly".

    Yeah, because that's her name <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; Keep looking....

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    Girl-From-MarsGirl-From-Mars Posts: 2,822 Boards Guru
    Originally posted by Whowhere:
    But it says a lot for my fertility if condoms cant hold it back, know what i mean :-) !?!?!!?!?!


    or it says that there were tiny holes in the condom that you didnt notice and it leaked through there <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt;

    "That which does not kill us makes us stronger."
    ~ Nietzsche
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru
    wildchild:
    Yeah, because that's her name <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; Keep looking....

    you think we dont have better things to do? <is in the archives with a torch>

    anyway, when you stick to unchallenging words it's not hard to spell them correctly <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt; <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/wink.gif"&gt;



    I think we should take Iraq and Iran and combine them into one country and call it Irate. All the pissed off people live in one place and get it over with <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/smilie/ukliam2.gif"&gt;
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    the_Paranoid_bunnythe_Paranoid_bunny Posts: 487 Listening Ear
    Originally posted by wildchild:
    Yeah, because that's her name <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/tongue.gif"&gt; Keep looking....

    no it wasn't her name... her name had other characters in it
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    Former MemberFormer Member Posts: 1,876,323 The Mix Honorary Guru

    Hiya <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.thesite.org/ubb/biggrin.gif"&gt;
    You know, your all right, ill use protection from now on coz...well i dont want to end up with a baby at only 16, it wouldnt be right! I was scared of telling my boyf(i get abit shy), it was him who suggested we need to be careful so that was a relief! Anyway, thanx for the advice!
    Love Miss_Kxxxx
    PS: the coil: aw sounds abit sore!

    <IMG alt="image" SRC="http://www.stopstart.fsnet.co.uk/Gif/WBtazani.gif"&gt;

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