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take a chance or cool it now?
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Ok, so here's the thing.
I've liked this guy for ages (a fair few months), and have known him for about a year. Nothing ever happened before as he had just finished with his girlfriend (who still likes him imo), but now thing seem to be progressing. The last couple of times i've seen him, we've ended up together all night kissing.
My problem is however that I'm really insecure at the minute, and am afraid to even start anything, because it'l lead to things going further. I've had a few probs of my own recently and i self-harm, so therefor im really conscious. Do you guys think i should give it a shot and risk him running a mile, or just cool things now?
Thanks
I've liked this guy for ages (a fair few months), and have known him for about a year. Nothing ever happened before as he had just finished with his girlfriend (who still likes him imo), but now thing seem to be progressing. The last couple of times i've seen him, we've ended up together all night kissing.
My problem is however that I'm really insecure at the minute, and am afraid to even start anything, because it'l lead to things going further. I've had a few probs of my own recently and i self-harm, so therefor im really conscious. Do you guys think i should give it a shot and risk him running a mile, or just cool things now?
Thanks
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But look on the positive side too, you could tell him about your problems, and he maybe able to help you. Dont just assume he will run a mile.
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Thanks Calvin. U always say the right things :thumb:
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