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Bullied kids punished
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According to this article. Does anyone have any experience of this?
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Time off school and nobody ever gave me grief again.
:thumb: always seemed to me to be the best way to deal with a bully. Find some way to knock them down and they'll back off.
:yes: And when I told any teacher I was being bullied, they never listened - even when they took my school bag nad managed to rip it.:rolleyes:
however, as most people are saying, if i'd have toughened up, i'd have got into trouble too
The verbal bullying in the end didn't bother me, they used to call me "Bea" (As in Bea from Prisoner Cell Block H) and I would just retort "YEah, well next time I'm inside it will be for your murder if you don't just F*ck off!" I also got called big tits but I have got big tits so it didn't bother me :razz:
My daughter is being bullied at the minute, I've just reported the bully for the second time this week for threatening to kick & punch her if my daughter "didn't get out of the bully's sight" :mad: I have told my daughter to just walk away, but she's 6 and takes everything to heart. My fear is this "bully" is going to do something to my daughter physically and my daughter will turn around and punch her and then end up in trouble, which I don't need being on the governors!
The kids left me alone after I threatened to rip one of thier throats out. That was fun.
I still used to get sent out of registration soon as I opened the door, but that teacher was just a fucking twat. I hated her.
You what?:eek2:
I enjoyed the week off though!
What did they expect you to do to him? Do nothing, run home and tell mummy?
Fuck knows. I was gobsmacked about the whole thing.
the way it should be :thumb:
So basically, he's allowing him to get away with it?:yeees:
I know of at least five or six cases where students have been stabbed in London and because they wont name the attacker and the college thinks they know who they are they are expelled. Its common policy, the thinking behind it is, if people with knives think they can intimidate people into not naming them then there is no deterant. I think its really nasty myself.
Essentially. It was years ago now though. Havn't spoken to the bastard who did it to me in years thank fuck.
1. This guy was name-calling and hitting me. I shut him up by headbutting him! The hillarious thing was that he was only 13 years old and he has already been excluded from many schools. He generally wasn't a very popular guy. I got slightly told off by a teacher but she saw the funny side of it :-)
2. Another guy name-called me for a brief period until I grassed him up. The trick here is to speak to a teacher who you're really close to.
I found this as well. It's even worse when they're stood right in front of you and they can see that someone is hitting and they do nothing about it.:rolleyes: What made it worse was that I ended up crying and nothing was ever done.:rolleyes:
Anyone else found that if you told the teachers you were being bullied or something, they just laughed at you, told you that the person involved (who they hadn't even spoken to) was only messing about and just ignore it?
The only time I actually got listened to was in Year 12. I got all the stick from their friends about it as well and they all decided to tell everyone.:yeees:
I've had it happen mor ethen once where teachers have spoken to there other students involved and they have blatently diened any wrong doing, lied and said I was the one bullying them etc.
In my personal experience, I was quite close with my teachers, so they did take it seriously. But a friend of mine was chased round the school with a knife, when he reported it, they said he could go home, he was waiting to go home and the guy chucked a brick at him, he threw it back - guess who got suspended??
But thankfully his parents decided never to bring him back to our college. While it's not that rough, for a small community college with about 1000 students, we get our fair share of deaths and violent assaults. Although some teachers are ace and break people's balls if they do it, most are indifferent, and some just deny it happens. There are much worse schools though, so if people who are picked on at MY old college had it rough, I dread to think what victims in the worse colleges are like.
Oh, also, my cousin who is staying with us, was threatened that she'd get stabbed by a group of girls, she mouthed back - she got sent home to us and got a letter written up. Whilst there's two sides to the story, in both cases it was provoked by a group vs. an individual, who frequently do it.
To be fair, if my kids are bullied, I'm not going to beat around the bush, it's soul destroying. My mum tried to run some kids over who were harassing my sister fantastic! And she smacked this guy in the face too lol. Whilst she was lucky to get away with it in a legal sense, she was perfectly justified, especially when the 'kids' hang around literally round the corner waiting for my sister to come out to beat her up.
Been there done that a swell. I remember a few years ago, there was a girl saying that I was writing letters to her boyfriend telling him to that I fancied him and to break up with her and go out with me! At first she said it was tru then she said she was only messing about.:rolleyes:
i love you. I love all of you. Good on you for hitting back, no matter how much trouble you got in!
I was never really bullied. My 'friend' did subtley in college though. Too scared to stand up to her though. That's over now