Whats wrong with me?

Former Member

I don't know what I'm doing wrong as im not bad looking and i get chatted up quite often but thats all it ever is. i go on one date with a guy and they don't want to meet again. I don't see what i'm doing wrong but all my friends can hold guys down as the guys who i go out with never last longer than one day. I don't sleep with themstraight away so its not that, i just dont understand whats wrong with me, any ideas? My friends are also confused of what it could be cause i don't appear to do anything different to their relationships

Former Member

Your personality? Do you come across as clingy?

Former Member

i'm not even clingy though, i they them call, text me first etc. my friend is much more clingy then me and she gets alot more guys and makes them last so i don't think its that

Former Member

Are you confident or shy?

Sorry about all the questions.

Former Member

It depends on how comfortable i feel will the guy i'm with so sometimes shy, sometimes confident so either way i cant keep them
i guess i quite often struggle to talk about things with them if i don't know what to say but even with the guys i got along with well and chatted to alot they still didn't want me:/
its really getting me down at the moment

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playdead wrote: »

I don't know what I'm doing wrong as im not bad looking and i get chatted up quite often but thats all it ever is. i go on one date with a guy and they don't want to meet again. I don't see what i'm doing wrong but all my friends can hold guys down as the guys who i go out with never last longer than one day. I don't sleep with themstraight away so its not that, i just dont understand whats wrong with me, any ideas? My friends are also confused of what it could be cause i don't appear to do anything different to their relationships

Sometimes it's just a case of "the right one hasn't been there." There are always guys who are gay, not interested in relationships, have a weird taste.
It can be that. There might be a long period of nobody, but you never know, soon enought it might be two or three at once.

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StrubbleS wrote: »

Sometimes it's just a case of "the right one hasn't been there." There are always guys who are gay, not interested in relationships, have a weird taste.
It can be that. There might be a long period of nobody, but you never know, soon enought it might be two or three at once.

:yes:

It may not be anything to do with you but the type of people you go for. (If that makes sense?)