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100% in agreement.
Ambition is good and proper, and I can assure you that a lot of people on these forums have a shitload of it. However are you really doing what you're doing because you're ambitious or are you trying to pursue something you think makes you shit hot?
If you were genuine, you wouldn't have all these complexes because of what you are doing/not doing.
I'm hoping to enter a sector with a ton of direct responsibility for human lives and thus pays well, but I'd never do it if I wasn't interested in the job itself or would it occur to me that I was any better than my friends for being entrusted with this kind of work. I'm not -I just chose a different route than they did to seek satisfaction.
I'd rather go clubbing with my mates that may not have any particular education than spend time with people like bankers. Having some background in business, I still wouldn't enjoy discussing these subjects on a night out because it's always so effin' fake to listen to. I'd rather go dance with that flaming hot construction worker who doesn't mind his clothes getting a bit crumpled.
Real authentic successful people don't need to fake it to make it. That's how it has always been and that's how it will always be. Well, if you forget Paris Hilton.
Btw, did you meet the girl this weekend like you said you would?
Give me a someone with a decent caring personalilty who can make me laugh any day rather then a shallow, image/money obessed eejit.
Jomery: Whats wrong with being an accountant anyway?
What's right with it? :yuck:
You probably wouldnt get paid without one maybe?
I do payroll.
Nah, it's just that it's one of those fake jobs isn't it? It's one of those jobs that only exists because everyone's forced to have one. Lawyers are another one of those. Incidentally, so is my job to some degree. But I admit the pointlessness of my job.
So do I, but you know what I mean.
Quite the contrary, pal.
When it comes down to it, ambition is what you make of it.
Some people have the ambition to be the perfect family man (or woman). Some people have the ambition to 'make a difference' in the world - hence tree-huggers etc. Some people have the ambition to be successful in business.
What MOST people are able to to, however, is balance their ambition with the rest of their life - hence leading something approaching normality. Check your PMs.
G.
I actually feel sorry for this guy,its like hes living in some weird apprentice crossed with the oc reality.:chin:
Mate, I don't think your in any position whatso ever to start critizing others. you seem to have quite a high opinion of yourself and you come across as pretty self-centred so maybe thats why in all your twenty three years you haven't had any luck. If you're really as good looking and special as you make yourself out to be, you're personality is probably putting a lot of people off. Maybe i'm out of order saying this but at least im honest.
:yes: This does seem about right.
Jomery - is there nay reason why you're so obsessed with getting a girlfriend/losing your virginity? And has it ever occured to you that people who claim to have lost theirs at 14/15 could be lying?
So if everybody who goes to these Special Clubs are so attractive, then what the fuck was a 16-year-old school girl who is according to you unattractive doing there?
I think he's just trying to prove to his 'friends' that he can pull someone.:yeees:
I don't know what makes you think that. I'm with g-angel here. I rather go to pub, club, other parties, instead of 'yuppie-club' with a dressing code, and beverages for >7? (or pound in your case).
Sounds very much like the sad and lonely prince in his castle, whereas the peasants and commoners go apeshit at the local party.
Maybe I now have a better grasp of the saying, that money doesn't equal happiness. It's not the money itself, but the stuck-up over-expecting demeanor you develop to fit into somewhere you do not belong.
The only ones you can impress with your wealth and your prestige are those who are going to suck the money straight outta your wallet, and just stay as long there is more to come.
Moreoever do I think - what others said - you are trying to hard to be something you aren't. All you want is a girl as a hood ornament. you want to create a false front of how prestiguous you are, how drop-dead gorgeous your partner is, how well you dress, how much money you can spend on an evening. Yeah, go ahead and drink your 200pound champagner in your high rated club with people who ridicule you, because you do not have the newest technical gadget that was released today.
I rather go to the gas station, have 2 beers and go then to a normal nightspot and meet people that do not care if my sweater is cotton or cashmere. You are in the wrong lobby, mate, and it will sooner or later make you very depressed and miserable.
We ???
Have you seen yourself .. you're stunning .. The fact you get laid probably has a lot to do with the fact you're way hotter then most girls I've seen.
As for the original poster - chances are that 16 year old girl is a lot more experienced then he is ... he's doing at 23 what most peope probably did at 15 .. He probably doesn't put things inthe right way on the message board but I can understand some of where he's coming from.
Lol i'm not stunning, and theres plenty of people on here getting as much sex as me
But thanks
I think I'm pleased for you but as you're not pleased yourself I'm not sure I should be.
As much as I can relate to you in what you've said in the past, you've come across as a right bell end again and very very shallow indeed and it's not nice to read.
Don't wanna be accused of hijacking the thread but on a personal note, after my football teams quite remarkable 7-2 victory in League 2 yesterday, I went out for some drinks and ended up pulling as well for the first time. She was completely bladdered and probably wouldn't have gone near me if sober but I didn't mind, lol. She was very pretty and after about 15 minutes of snogging it was the end of the night and she was that bladdered that she could barely stand so I made sure she got into a taxi and the driver knew where she was going before jumping in my own with my mates.
I was buzzing after it I might add and I felt about 12 stone lighter with the weight lifted off my shoulder.
I seem to be what I'm not, you see.
To be honest I'd rather be "the great pretender", someone who everyone assumes is a legend, happy, living the dream life, with insecurities I've splattered across this forum hidden from the public, than someone who's personally happy/content but nobody sings praises about. Life's too short, so I wouldn't mind going down in history a bit on paper rather than being the guy hidden in the wallpaper.
My dad died when he was 25. I was too young to know him, and people always told me what they admired about him. They didn't admire the fact that at the age of 22 he bought his first house, and drove around in a BMW. They didn't admire the fact that he took on the family business, despite having no academic qualifications, and turned that business around into a success. They don't speak of the fact that by going into property development, it would have made him a millionaire today.
They tell me he was a legend because he was brilliant with people, he was friendly, kind and a decent, loyal, honest human being that worked hard, and throughout anything, put the people he loved first. You said yourself, life's too short. I just hope for your sake that you wake up and learn what it's all about.
But why?
You're NOT going to go down in history etc etc, you're just going to be another of 'THEM', my friend. You're/they're all of a much-ness and nobody much cares, contrary to your belief.
Why *think* that people give much of a shit about you, if you're pretty much empty inside, when your thoughts of yourself are always lacking? I just don't get it mate.
I've offered you a chance to chat about this, yet you've ignored it. I'm beginning to think this is a bit of bullshit.
Lol i don't actually think it's a wind up.
As for what go_away said, again people lead different lives, when I get fanmail it is particularly people respecting what CV-type accomplishments I have achieved for my age.