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Um, I'm confused. Aren't you the world's oldest virgin and had never pulled? I'd say the lack of experience is yours.
Not necessarily...loads of girls that age go out purely to pull....I wouldn't assume she's going to fall for him or want to take it further just because she's younger...infact, far from it....
I would agree with that, but I would also be careful because if she does really like him, then it would be incredibly cruel to go out with her for practice, or some sort of ego boost. A quick kiss in a club isn't a big deal, but leading her on would be.
Ohh...I see...fair enough! :thumb:
Why on earth are you even thinking about being with someone if you don't fancy them? Or is it just to prove that someone does fancy you and that the sooner you're not a virgin the better? She's far too young for you anyway - at her age, I wouldn't have even gone out with a 19 year old, let alone a 23 year old...
If you don't fancy her then don't bother stringing her along. Or are you doing this to prove something?
As for going out with someone I don't particularly like, I was just following the advice of the HowToBeCooler site that for your first experience you shouldn't be picky to gain experience, so that you'll be much better off if the right person eventually comes along: I expect to get flamed heavily as per usual for this post. Maybe some of you need to be more tolerant that different people in the UK live very different lives depending on background, lifestyle etc, and thus their attitudes and priorities are very different. All my male and female friends are attractive and high-calibre, you don't get let into the VIP rooms at Movida or Chinawhite if you're unattractive. And it's not unreasonable to think that girls I get should be an "equal match" rather than someone much less attractive etc than myself.
Maybe you need to adopt a less superficial lifestyle in order to get fucked?
So, you're just going out with someoen for the sake of it are you?:yeees:
If london is so shallow then go and find a stunning girl who's only interested in whats in your wallet - if 'that's how it is'. Are you actually happy living in a such a shallow society? Maybe you're just not supposed to be there. Which can only be good.
Well, that was never out of question or? Since day one.
Not that it is a good thing, but can't tell a man not to eat so hasty when he starved for a week.
Not for you though eh? Sorry, but you're so up your own arse it's pitiful - if you actually came back down to terrafirma and realised that life is what you make it and not what the magazines or glitterati say it is then maybe you'd actually find a girl who's attention you're worthy of.
So, it IS a trophy girlfriend you're after...
:rolleyes:
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You know, it's not killing a person that makes someone evil, it's planning to kill a person. Even if they fail they're just as evil as if they had succeeded.
Similar with you. You might not be the kind of guy who's doing it with a different woman every night and never again contacts any since you've never done it, but you're the same as him. You both just want more ticks in the box.
Its great that your progressing if that’s the correct word to use(?).
Those comments you made about her is understandable cos I think we’ve all said something along the lines about people we’ve pulled. Mosts of the out cry was to do with how you phrased it the 'given my looks/status' part etc… kinda uncool and who knows, she probably thinks the same about you.
If your gonna start anything please tread carefully cos if she really is 16, she's gonna be impressionable, know matter how mature!
Yeah, image is a big part of London life. Its also bravado. Once you scratch the surface things aren’t always as they appear. It’s a shame you haven’t realised this. Where did you meet this girl, If you weren’t at chinawhite?
…anywhy aren’t weekend nights ‘chav night’ at chinawhite, so they let anyone in.
P.S Indrid Cold loving your work!
I'm sure you feel great for having pulled someone but do you know what is a better feeling? - Pulling someone you really like!
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That's what I meant
I think you're slightly delusional, mate. Life shouldn't be so pidgeon-holed.
In terms of looks perhaps, but you can have a nasty enough personality. Although I'm still laughing at the fact that Chinawhite is considered upmarket.
Having been to places like Chinawhite, the Met Bar etc, yes, it seems very glam and sophisticated at the time, but you have to look beyond that and stop deluding yourself. They're pretty much the same as everywhere else, but with a bit more pretense and sometimes a gram or two of coke here and there. If you want to meet someone there for some short term fun, fine, but you really need to take a step outside and look at the way you're behaving. I've known many guys like you, and trust me, it's noticable and not attractive in the slightest, even for something like a one night stand.
I know for a fact I wouldn't go near you with a barge pole.
You have serious personality problems. If you want to get anywhere in life, I'd sort it out mate.
I mean you can complain all you like about us judging your lifestyle and choices, but if you come on here asking for advice about how you can pull someone pretty to look good on your arm, or what to do next with the 16 year old girl you're pretending to like, you're not going to get it.
Totally agreed.
*wonders if this girl will work out that Jomery is actually desparate and doesn't actually fancy her*
Yes he admitted to me that he'd rather have a stunning girl and be surrounded by beautiful people at a posh and exclusive club than down the local with a girl that looks like everyone else.
Er helloooooooo have you not noticed you obviously can't pull anyone let alone a stunner? You are totally and utterly delusional.
As for girls that look like everyone else...who cares! We get laid, we're happy. Shame you can't see past the superficial life you've created for yourself. You'd probably be a lot happier if you did.
It fucking blows, to be honest, as the only people propagating this is themselves. These kind of people actually have no idea that the rest of the world, pretty much, despises them for exactly the reasons that he thinks are qualities. I couldn't wait to get out of there, to be honest, as I'm a decent normal bloke who loves to get down and sweaty in a proper night club, as opposed to standing around, pretending to enjoy oneself and paying through the nose in a shitty 'celeb' club. Talk about being overrated.
Isn't that what Paranoid Android was written about?
To be honest, I've no idea. I was not the biggest Radiohead fan when that came out. I think it could be worth a re-listening.
ahahah potw
Ohhh woe is you. I's not your fault that you're too good for some women is it?
Like I say, women aren't there to be won, they aren't there to look pretty in your arms. If you want that, get a poodle, if you want to get laid get off cloud nine.