Difficult break up
I’m nervous to break up with my boyfriend. We’ve been together for about a year and a half, he’s a lovely guy and I think he’d make a fantastic boyfriend to someone else. However, we fight all the time, we rarely go a day without at least bickering. The thought of him coming over makes me annoyed and I honestly just want to me alone.
My problem is, he moved from Florida to be with me in Brighton (although he lied and said it was for his family who also live here) and Im worried what this will do to him. I would want him to move back to Florida so he can be with his immediate family and friends and be happy because I don’t think I can make him happy.
We were long distance for a long time and sadly we just haven’t worked out. We’re both so young, 21 and 22 years old, I don’t see the point trying to make this struggling relationship work when we can just cut our losses and hopefully find our soul mates. I just feel very guilty and worried for him and his mental health, and I hope that he’ll be okay. How do I get over this guilt? And how do I break up with him gently, and make sure he’ll be okay? Help me! I feel so selfish and awful I don’t know what to do!