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pah! That's probably because you are unhappy with your bf, go reconcile with your gf. okok, i will stop manipulating your relationship ;p
This might just work. She is about a hundred years old and wouldn't know if I don't post much.
Haha xD I would if she had a nice fringe
Xx
aww, this one is apparently all about the inner values
skinny dipping all the way! everyone can swim. just hold your breath with full lungs and float around on your back until you hit the edge of the pool.
It ended up with me in the swimsuit I bought for school aged ten doing an asthmatic doggy paddle. Although I now feel I may have done something towards burning off the 7 doughnuts I ate yesterday?
EDIT: I've also just blowdried my newly dyed hair and it is now ginger/green. I look like an orange and lime tictac
Where the heck do you go swimming anyway at this hour?
You fit in a swimsuit you had when you were ten years old? wow.
You probably burned the first bite of the first doughnut ;P
Well I'd finished my revision for the evening, so it really seemed a good idea, before I got in the pool.
And I didn't fit into the swimsuit, I had a massive wedgie, and ended up popping out
I'm sure I managed more than the first bite, maybe the first doughnut?
Where is that pool? Does your friend have her private one? or is it in uni, or I have no idea?
OF course, the skinny dipping was more on the jokey side, but if it was my friends private pool and I didn't have bathing clothes I would just go in naked.
/e: fitting in a swimsuit for ten year olds might not even be that hard, depending on how old you are
The wonders of boarding school, having a free gym and swimming pool right on your doorstep!
Aparently we had to swim lengths, rather than just piss around in the shallow end, so I don't think she'd've been too pleased with any skinny dipping
she just replied 'i will send an email when the essays are ready for collection, best (seminar leader name).
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR. 3rd year. panicking. my last topic to revise too and she knows the exam is on the 17th
yeah, i nearly did :sour: lost so much blood!! i went to the doctor actually because it wouldnt stop bleeding and he said that it would stop eventually on its own, but cuz i cut such a large chunk off it wont grow back fully
so wonky finger it is!!
Kinda explains that I get no feedback at all.
Currently confessing to her in facebook chat. A new all time low, but what can I do. I rather have a bright red REJECTED on my forehead than a silent retreat.
This will go so horribly wrong, apologies already for my bed mood and cynical behavior on your threads for the upcoming week.
/e: Oh yea, she went offline.
/e2: oh god, she's not... she replied... I AM SITTING ON NEEDLES HERE. oh holy damn.
I rather save the surprise for when I bagged that.
you know, never divulge that you are a millionaire when you try to pull. Give it to her as a bonus, because she chose you.
Oh god this is embarrassing, but I'm tipsy, and I can still edit it out next day, right?
Oh wait, things speeding up for a bit. It's so much easier with music in the background, wow... and alcohol in the veins
transcript follows.
/e: k she's gone. Guess it ran better than expected, but still not satisfying. I don't know, we'll see. Strubbles never stops doubting.
I'm sure you he wont mind me telling ya'll that.
Good luck with it Matt :thumb:
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yea, and I want to spank her.
Great, you just ruined my grand finale. But you are forgiven, because you've been woken up by a whiny text. Alright, I am at uni now, but I'll give you a short summary of what we talked about and you play judge and tell me I am mad and only grasping at straws. anyway, back to work.
So after some chat I asked her if she has a boyfriend (even tho I know she does not), she said, no, she has neither the time nor the nerves *g* (<- a giggle/grin).
She basically has to work overtime all the time, because there is so much work to do, and all the time people are on sick leave.
I asked her how long she was single for, she said she had something going on in october but one couldn't call that a relationship and then asking how my situation was.
I gave her my answer and asked when she had her last steady boyfriend, to which she answered she never really reckoned them as steady, because she never had something long term.
I said, I never had long term stuff either. My longest relationship was about 2 months and cynics may not even count that as a relationship, so I asked her if she had someone for a few weeks/months at a time, to which she said, "yea, when I was 14 *g*" and that it lasted for a few months, but she didn't quite count it, because she wasn't in it with her heart.
I wondered if she generally disapproves of boyfriend and relationship or if it just never happened, to which she answered yea, you could say it was just never right.
So I don't know what her deal is. I mean she is hot, B-A can attest to that. I just don't understand what I am getting into.
Ok, so I found some hope, thinking she maybe had so little relationships, because she is so oblivious of people fancying her, I was tired of the chasing with so little progress and decided I put all my eggs in one basket and said
I am not sure if you realized, but I was interested in you. It's just damn hard to reach you
and
I know this is incredibly lame over facebook, but I could hardly see you in person, oh well, now you know that I have a crush on you.
*5 minutes pause*
I guess you are a bit overwhelmed by that now.
she, "A bit, but I don't think it's lame
me, "I just didn't fine another chance. So what do you think about us trying it?" (there is no good translation, but I guess you understand)
she, "the problem is i am pretty unsure of a lot of things at the moment."
"what do you mean?"
"What I want, how I reach it, and how I handle the problems I have."
"I didn't plan to make your life harder. A relationship shouldn't be a burden. The question is, can you imagine having one with me? Maybe I can aid you indirectly in the achievement of your goals."
and
"All I can say is, since you are not averse to a relationship, and if you can imagine having one with me, go for it
"Hm, I just don't know..."
"So what do you say if we spend more time together and have a look what develops out of it?
"Ok."
[different bla bla]
me, "So I contact you more often in the next time and hope you have time."
she, "yes, the best way to reach me is online anyway."
So, after sleeping over it and being sober again I think it sounds way worse than I yesterday thought. I mean this is practically nothing. I am afraid that she's too similar to me regarding relationships. Wanting one, but not being bothered about doing what it takes and as a result kinda chickening out, or not doing anything until every last hope is dead.
It would have probably been better if I just kept my mouth shut and forgot about her, now I'm in the middle of something, expecting a lot, but being able to lose it all. bleh.